How To Use A Masturbator, Stroker or Pocket Pussy

THE BASICS - HOW TO USE A MALE MASTURBATOR

​Sex toys for men have become in more demand over recent years. Once upon a time the sex toy market was directly primarily at women, however sex toys for men have increased 10 fold in the last few years. Manufacturers have responded to this growing market with a significant increase in the number of sex toys for men available. The most common of these are the male masturbators.

A masturbator for men is known by a number of names, and over time each name has merged with the others to essentially refer to the same thing. A masturbator, stroker sex toy or pocket pussy are all masturbation tools that looks somewhat like a flashlight, hence the well known branded version called Fleshlight.

A Stroker is the simplest male masturbator, and is generally a simple tube like device in which you insert your cock.

A Pocket Pussy is considered the masturbator with the most realistic feel, as the pocket pussy is lined on the inside with various contours to simulate the feel of a real orifice, whether it be a vagina, ass (anal sex) or mouth (oral sex). A pocket pussy is generally made from a realistic SuperSkin material, which has been manufactured to feel similar to real flesh, sometimes encased in a solid outer shell similar to that of a Fleshlight, a specific brand of sex toys for men. Some men's masturbators include internal motors to enhance the senses, while other more simple ones like the stroker and pocket pussy are simply made from the soft superskin material and are a compact device that in theory could be kept in your pocket.

Most often, at least one end of the masturbator is shaped like a real human orifice and the inside walls are lined with various contours to create varying sensations - some realistic and some less so, and some powered and others not, depending on your preference and your budget. Get some lube happening on your cock, insert into the orifice of the masturbator and away you go.

Is the pocket pussy any good? Well using a pocket pussy is the cheapest option other than using Mrs Palmer and her five daughters. Its no wild secret of masturbation that if using lube while masturbating, a masturbator will provide a very realistic experience, and you don’t even have to take her on a date beforehand. A cheap pocket pussy will set you back less than $30, and if you take care of your sex toys by keeping them clean and stored correctly, you won't need to invest in any others for some time, unless you want some variety.

Using any masturbator on your own is good, but sharing the experience with your partner could be even better. Lets face it, there aren’t too many women these days that don’t have a sex toy. "But my partner doesn't masturbate, and if she did she wouldn’t do it in front of me". Time to find out for sure. Communicate and play, you will be most likely pleasantly surprised to find out just how erotic masturbation sharing can be.

There are a few simple tricks that can make the entire experience better, longer or more satisfying to ensure that you are getting the very best from your masturbator every time you use it, and we thought we would share some for you here.

​PREPARATION

WARM UP YOUR MASTURBATOR

​While the soft fleshy material of the masturbator feels amazingly realistic, most masturbators usually lack the temperature of real skin. Warming up your masturbator before use can make a massive difference to the sensations you experience, making the whole thing a lot more realistic, which is ultimately what you are wanting. The easiest way to heat the masturbator is to place the whole item in a clean sink full of hot water for a few minutes beforehand, and guess what, before you can say “moist”, you’re good to go.

LUBE IT UP

​Adding lube is another way to really change the feel of your masturbator. Because of the material used in making internal section of the masturbator, you should only ever use water based lubricants. Other lubes might damage the material so make sure you check before buying. Check out our range of lubricants and massage oils.

​Depending on your own desires and expected level of sensation, you may need to experiment with thicker or thinner lubricants to find one that suits your own personal needs. It can be very difficult to recommend a single lube as everyone will have different preferences but, as a general rule, the more thicker the lube, and the more you use, the lessor the intensity of the contours within the masturbator. `

CLEANING YOUR MASTURBATOR

In order to make your masturbator sleeve, stroker or pocket pussy last, you need to take care of it. Luckily for you, this is a simple process. Rinse it thoroughly with clean water and leave it out in a warm dry spot until it is completely dry. Do not use soap, turn the tool inside out, or place it directly onto a hot surface to attempt to dry it faster, as these can all cause damage to the internal material.

There are products available for cleaning but essentially you can keep your equipment clean and soft by regular cleaning with warm water.

So, now you have it, the "ins and outs" of masturbation with one of Bed Buddies masturbators. Go and have some fun.

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